Blog 1.
2nd Commandment Strategy (Wisdom).  

How to Survive as a Christian in order to do the 2nd Commandment successfully.


Secular Society today in this Generation is Perverted.
As a Christian, you can’t say “I love you” anymore, because Secular Society does not understand the definition of Love, they believe it as Sexual Desire.

I wonder what is the first idea they comprehensively think of when as a Christian, you tell them “God Loves you” or “Jesus loves you”?
Do they automatically register this to visually view it as God/Jesus wanting to have Sex with you?

When you google “Love” in Google Images, all of the photos is “Eros Love”.
Something that is meant for Sexual Desire.
There is nothing that relates to Unconditional Love, or Brotherly Love, Agape Love or Phileo Love, or Sacrificial Love.

That means as a Christian, you really have to be careful when saying “I love you” to Secular People.
Because of how greatly Perverted they are and Wired to see it as Sexual Desire.

You can’t even say “I love you” to any Secular People including Muslims, Witches, Atheists, Non-Christians, LGBTQ+, ANY ONE, just as Jesus has Instructed Christians to do.
You really have to be extremely cautious when saying this and demonstrating the Love of Christ to people.

The Solution is to Start Teaching YouTube Videos to bring Awareness to Society.
It’s better to Speak than to hide.

& to just be really careful when you do “Love your Neighbor” approach.

Christians actually understand what Love is, so when you say “I Love you”, they receive it Normally.

This is why the correct approach to Loving Secular People is to NOT do it ALONE Individually.
You have to do it as a GROUP (Corporately), because of the Boundaries that’s been placed to bring Protection in Accountability.

For example:
If you are alone in Starbucks and you try to be Loving, people are going to perceive it Sexually and receive you in that way, because of the Absent Social Boundaries in Accountability Measures.
Whereas, if you are hanging out socially with 5 Christians (Brothers & Sisters in Christ) at Starbucks, and they start demonstrating Love to others, Secular People are going to receive it as Compassion and Empathy, because of the Social Boundaries placed to ascertain Accountability measures.

Which is why being a Loner Christian in the Secular World is almost Dangerous.
Because of how Secular People approach you in Codependency with Wired minds in Perversion, approaching you in Sexual Harassment.

Because Secular People do not understand Objective Truths, their World is built on Subjective Truths and Subjective Reasoning.
They don’t have the Understanding of Ethics and Morality. All Ethics and Morality are on the Basis of Objective Truths. The US Constitution is built on Objective Truths, and these came from Christian Principles. America was founded as a Christian Nation, but because of the Evolution of Society over the decades has invited a Multigenerational, Multiethnic, Multisocioeconomic, multinational Melting Pot of having different beliefs that don’t cater to the Same Ethics and Morality that America was founded on originally. So how Secular People live by already has these Secular Definitions programmed in their Paradigm in Subjective truths and Subjective reasoning.
My point is, America Today is a very Complicated Nation, so Evangelizing, to do “Love People” requires a Protected Approach for Christians.

Evangelizing to Secular People as a Loner Christian is dangerous. You have to do it Corporately.

The Correct Evangelism is: “Treasure Hunts” (Prophetic Street Evangelism). This was intentionally for Corporate Model.

Which is why all throughout the Bible, it shows many examples of the Structure of Corporate Model.
It’s most emphasized in the New Testament.

There are 3 Circles: Inner-Circle, Outer-Circle, Outermost Circle.
Jesus’ Inner-Circle (Mary Magdalene, Peter, James, John, Andrew).
Jesus’ Outer-Circle (the rest of the Disciples).
Jesus’ Outermost Circle (the crowd that followed to hear more of Jesus’ teachings).

We can see the same elaborated in Apostle Paul’s 3 Circles.

That is why to Survive as a Christian in the World is that you must have the 3 Circles in your life, and that the Secular People are considered as the Outsiders in order to follow the 2nd Commandment well.

These 3 Circles were meant to Place Protection for Boundaries and Accountability.

Because the Secular World is so Twisted in their thinking and reasoning, that being a Loner Christian to the Secular World is only going to Hurt your Mental Health.
The Secular World is not going to be as attached to you in Codependency, when they see you are Corporately with Likeminded Christians.

The Bible does say that we need to be surrounded by Likeminded Christians.
Because the Body (of Christ) has different Members (Body Parts), like the Hand, the Foot, the Leg, the Neck, etc.
Each Body Part is like a Different Denomination. We’re all Different, but still believe in Jesus.
Which is why you have to associate yourself with Likeminded Christians, the same Body part as you.
Just as All Hispanics speak the same Espanol Language, but not all Hispanics are the same.
(e.g., Mexicans, Argentinians, Chileans, Spainards, Brazilians, Salvadorians, Puerto Ricans, Cubans, Bolivians, Ecuadorians, Columbians, Venezuelans, Sephardic Jews, etc.)

Which is why you have to follow this Corporate Model in order to Survive as a Christian in the World,
or else your Mental Health will be Compromised, because the Secular World have correct education of Boundaries.

Which Supports why you cannot allow the Secular Principles, Principalities, Secular World try to Conform to their Standards of how they Approach/Perceive Life, and allow Secular Definitions to redefine your Biblical Narrative and Reasoning.
You must allow God’s Word define your Reasoning, Approach. Keep Biblical Definitions, follow Biblical Christianity, Biblical Model, Biblical Principles.
Secular Principles/Principalities actually leads to Poor Mental Health and become an Attack on your Mental Health, Emotional Health, Relational Health, Spiritual Health.
Because the Secular Society is established on Carnality as their Identity,
You must not let Carnality Identity to replace your theology, Sonship/Daughtership is your Identity.  

References:
https://www.quora.com/Why-is-the-world-so-perverted

Book:
Boundaries By: Dr. Henry Cloud
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Updated-Expanded-When-Control/dp/0310351804/ref=sr_1_1?crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&qid=1660322070&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=8-1

Other Books in Boundaries:
Boundaries in Marriage:
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Marriage-Henry-Cloud/dp/0310243149/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310243149&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-1-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990

Boundaries in Dating:
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Dating-Healthy-Choices-Relationships/dp/0310200342/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310200342&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-3-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990

Boundaries with Kids:
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Kids-Children-Control-Their/dp/0310243157/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310243157&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-4-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990

Boundaries with Teens:
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Teens-When-Say-Yes/dp/0310270456/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310270456&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-6-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990

Safe People: How to find Relationships that are Good for you and Avoid those that Aren’t:
https://www.amazon.com/Safe-People-Relationships-Avoid-Those/dp/0310345790/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310345790&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-5-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990

Beyond Boundaries:
https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Boundaries-Learning-Trust-Relationships/dp/0310330769/ref=sxin_10_mbs_w_global_sims?content-id=amzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102%3Aamzn1.sym.167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&crid=12DJZ2STT64XA&cv_ct_cx=boundaries+henry+cloud&keywords=boundaries+henry+cloud&pd_rd_i=0310330769&pd_rd_r=05c1f966-dc21-464b-935a-36b2a40c6684&pd_rd_w=izskg&pd_rd_wg=ac7uZ&pf_rd_p=167d0880-9da0-400b-938e-4382731a4102&pf_rd_r=WM1NSEMTV5BFN6801J9C&qid=1660322099&sprefix=boundaries+hen%2Caps%2C81&sr=1-8-9e7645f9-2d19-4bff-863e-f6cdbe50f990